The International Women’s Day is a great opportunity to view what progress we did or how we helped the women around the world or even in our own community,  or even in our own home.

Sometimes when  look  around our surroundings, we observed that sisters, mothers, wives and even maids are treated with disrespect, humiliation, seduced and killed every minutes. On this unanimous day do something special for the victim and less fortunate women. Gather friends and family members and do a charity or fundraiser.  Distribute love and adore your mother,  sisters, wives and even maids. Maids are earning money and working to support their family. You don’t own them. This is their job, so, be a good, generous, and respectful boss.  Raise your voice or pen to criticize men and politics who are treating women as a third class citizen and treating them with rubbish and torture. A very good example is Pakistan’s men and politics: killing and abusing women every second.  Pakistan’s television channel “GEO” is showing women as modernized creature, giving them opportunity to be an equal citizen and human, but politicians and religious extremists tried to close the channel many times, criticizing it of following Western footsteps of countries like United States and Britain.  But GEO is not giving up. That’s what I’m talking about. Why only few are willing to support freedom and equality for women?   Why few? United States is most freed country for women, I ever witnessed. That’s for sure!

Happy International Women’s Day, to my fellow women from every side of the country they’re suffering in, and each and every corner of the World.  I’m always with you.

Here are some links to view this day:

The First Women’s Day

White House Celebration

Pakistani Women Struggle

Donate and Help

Women are same and equal creation of GOD. And they should be allowed to live freely with liberty of speech and actions. Who will stand against illiterate ,men of certain countries who murder women in name of religion. But religion does not allow this neither does God.

(I’ve Post It On  http://blog.amnestyusa.org/women/honor-killings-of-women-brought-to-light/#comment-12489 )

Why I’m asking about men? Why aren’t these questions for women?

I need your respond. Your thoughts. And your articles, comments, argument, whatever you feel like saying on this topic. I’ll be waiting.

It depends on where the woman is born or how she handles herself. For example if she’s born in United States Of America, she have opportunities of good education K-12,  freedom of speech, support groups, and much more. In these situations it’s a heaven to a woman.

But if she’s born in an unfortunate country or city, like Bangladesh, Africa or Pakistan, where education is only for male. Parents or should I say Men of the family think that what a woman would do by getting education? Those countries see woman as a machine for producing babies, or maid to take care their house and kids, or even not worthy. In this type of situations, it’s definitely not a woman’s world. It’s more like misery and hell to her!

It can be opposite.  Many women from educated and prosperous countries like China, UAE, UK, are born in poverty or strict  family rules and can’t explore the opportunities their country offers and can’t fulfill their dreams and cannot discover themselves. On the other hands, many women develop themselves personally and professionally because their parents were educated and knew what the education  and love can do for their daughters. These women are very fortunate to get the facilities  and care in miserable environments and less fortunate countries like India.

But in my view, whether your born in flourishing areas of the world or  poor places, you should take care of your rights. Make parents, husband, brothers or guardians understand how amazing and  achieving you are, and you can be one of the powerful woman of the world if they provide love, care and support. Don’t give up your independence for silly purposes, like when a men tells you that it’s your job to be lesser  than men and forget about your dreams. Don’t follow foolish rules. I’m not saying, don’t respect, love  or be obedient to parents, husband or brothers and I’m not saying do not listen to their advise. I just trying to tell you or guide you that please stand up for yourself when you think that they are taking advantage of your quietness and love. Do speak if you think they can destroy your dreams forever.

It’s hard to say if it’s women’s world or not.

But  many women like, My beloved Mom, born In Pakistan, was a very brave,  motivational, caring, loving and  spiritual person, I ever met in my life. She never gave up on any difficulty she faced. And always told us to succeed and be brave, caring and kind. God Bless Her!

Other personalities like Hillary Clinton (USA), Mother Teresa (India), Benazir Bhutto (Pakistan), Begum Khaleda Zia (Bangladesh), have proved with their hard work and motivation that they are a powerful and worthy woman.

Some of the links you can visit about these successful women:

Hillary Clinton

1. Mother Teresa

2. Mother Teresa

3. Mother Teresa

Muhtarma  Benazir Bhutto

Begum Khaleda Zia

Send your chosen powerful women. Even anybody only you know not the world. Your mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, any one who never gave up her rights.  And I’ll publish here!

I want my Pakistani women to be like her. No matter who say that you’re worthless or useless, don’t let them destroy your life or even  control it!

Whether its your father, brother, husband, uncle or even son, no man  can take away your rights to be happy, hopeful and live a flourishing  life.

Whitney Houston went through torture, disrespect, stress, addiction but she picked herself up, stand on her feet, took action against her misery and succeeded.

I want Pakistan’s women to never give up. and support of your love ones who care and are there for her. I’m with you!

small sentence but carries BIG meanings!

If you think you can make a difference by doing something unusually good, then don’t think, just go on with it. Don’t let anyone tell you, “It’s not going to work”. Then can doubt you but you can’t doubt yourself! Can you?

If you see discrimination happening in society, try to stop it in any way you can. You’ll get hurdles in your way but with boldness and believe in your heart, you’ll succeed!

Do comments or argue with me on this topic!

The latest victims include at least 20 dead in Khyber Agency who were in no way part of the military machine that is fighting the Taliban. They were members of the Khasadar Force, a tribal police unit that draws its manpower from the local population. Gathered at a checkpoint near the Afghan border on Thursday evening, the Khasadars were hit by a suicide bomber just as they were about to break their fast. For nearly two dozen men on official duty, this Ramadan proved to be their last. Who knows, the misguided man who blew himself up in search of eternal bliss may have been fasting himself.

Thursday’s tragedy was the first major suicide blast in Pakistan since the death of

Tehrik-i-Taliban chief Baitullah Mehsud. Responsibility for the attack was claimed by a Taliban-affiliated militant outfit based in Orakzai, which borders Khyber Agency. A spokesman for the organization also warned of further attacks if the government persists with using the region as a supply route for Nato forces in Afghanistan. With the crackdown on the Taliban continuing in earnest, the militants perhaps feel they can force the government to change tack through random acts of savagery. Though nothing is set in stone and predictions can be premature, this policy seems destined for failure. Nor is the Taliban’s terror campaign likely to sway public sentiment, which is now firmly behind the military operation. In fact, every new act of violence strengthens the view that the perpetrators of these heinous crimes can no longer be tolerated.

With the power struggle in the top echelons of the Pakistani Taliban apparently over, there is a danger that the new TTP chief may unleash a fresh wave of terror to cement his credentials as a ‘worthy’ successor to Baitullah Mehsud. Hakimullah Mehsud is said to be a ruthless and highly ambitious young man, and could have a point to prove to more senior Taliban commanders and any detractors within his loosely knit organization. Unlike his predecessor he craves exposure. And for a mindset as warped as that of the Taliban, violence means publicity.

This news is taken from DAWN Pakistan’s Newspaper,  after reading this news, that Muslims killing the other Muslims, on the name of same religion, I think nobody wants to adapt this religion, what do you think?

Be brave. Don’t lose hope!  God is with you.  Men is your brother, husband, father, uncle but not God.  Don’t let the men  make decisions for you!  Don’t let him control your life!   And don’t let him treat you like slave or maid!

You are a human and you are no less then men!